1. Follow me at Fat2Fitwomen fat2fitwomen: Weight is not approximate, I remember my start and end weight, it gets a bit blurry in between. I wish at the time I would have kept better record but I never thought I would have lost all that weight, I was just taking it one day at a time.  I hope that this inspires and motivates you!

    Follow me at Fat2Fitwomen

    fat2fitwomen:

    Weight is not approximate, I remember my start and end weight, it gets a bit blurry in between. I wish at the time I would have kept better record but I never thought I would have lost all that weight, I was just taking it one day at a time. 

    I hope that this inspires and motivates you!

  2. It’s that simple!

    It’s that simple!

  3. It is difficult not to react sometimes, when you react you give your power to something/someone else. 

    It is difficult not to react sometimes, when you react you give your power to something/someone else. 

  4. Evidence

    Finally! Evidence of everything that I know I am capable of attaining. Slowly all the pieces of my grand masterpiece are coming together. My vision is becoming clearer it feels great. I feel accomplished even if its a minor one…..evidence that I can do what I set out to do. You can too, DON’T GIVE UP!

    It took me a few years to get to the point of truly knowing what I want and its not clear cut yet and far from perfect. I made many mistakes, I failed numerous amounts of times and there will be more failures, I WILL NEVER stop fighting for myself.  I can almost taste the success. 

    Today I took another small step in the direction of my ultimate vision and I feel victorious….to many more successes! 

    Lets celebrate together, chase what you want out of life and ignore, discard the things that you don’t. FOCUS on the positive….that is positive energy, people, thoughts and GO!!!

    Love + Light

    Jae Lux

  5. Note to self…..it’s ok to let go

    It is unfortunate when you are in your own path of growth and no longer fit into the standards of other people; their expectations constantly beating you. They judge you…misunderstand you, sometimes talk about you (that hurts) and take everything personally. The worst part about this is when it is someone you have been very close to; a good friend. 

    We are all growing, sometimes its apart other times its closer together…

    I have stopped holding onto what should have been or what should be and just accept what is. It doesn’t mean I don’t care about them anymore or love them…I am just giving them their space. I will always have an open heart and be there if they ever call, that is just who I am. It doesn’t mean I have to accept being looked down upon. If you are busy judging me then you have no time to love me….that is the TRUTH. 

    “Love is the ability and willingness to allow those that you care for to be what they choose for themselves without any insistence that they satisfy you.”- Wayne Dyer

    I am not judging you for judging me; it’s an awareness that maybe I just don’t belong in your space at this time and I accept that.

    Love + Light

    Jae Lux

    *disclosure: this wasn’t written for a specific intended target, it’s how I feel about anyone that fits this specific mold, if you feel offended… it might be guilt, or maybe it isn’t. I guess you are the only one that can decide…

  7. Purpose decides to smack you in the face…

    Ahhh EUREKA! How many times have I felt that way; I have the answer to all of my deep unfulfilled questions…I know it feels very real….this is it….my purpose…then you do it and it wasn’t all that you thought it was cracked up to be. (SCREEEECHHH!) Then everything comes to a halt and the process begins once again….well, if you have the courage to go for it again anyway. Usually, for me at least its after a minimum of a week of sulking. Similar to what the water feels when it first greets the Arctic air. Completely still in nothingness….

    Yes it sucks!

    Then it happens….EUREKA! This time its different…there is a sensation, it warms your heart, your spine is tingling and you have no clue how the hell you are going to make it happen but you TRUST that it is going to….that is it….the purpose you were waiting for.

    Many of my realizations lately are that there is NOTHING…. absolutely NOTHING to wait for or find; purpose is what you do in your interactions EVERY SINGLE DAY (sounds familiar?) Its the smile, the seat, open door, warm heart, empathetic ear you give to all of those around you. The gratitude that you feel when you are doing everything. If you are NOT happy take action, change something until you feel the love in your heart and your spine tingle….it will be there where you find your purpose; that one sleepless night that purpose decides to smack you in the face. 

    Love + Light

    Jae

  8. “the only opinion that can impact you is the one which, you agree with”- Jaquelin Lux

    “the only opinion that can impact you is the one which, you agree with”- Jaquelin Lux

  9. There are many people who walk around in the world with a NEED to be right…right about others, she is this, they are that, if you do this then that, if you wear this you’re that….always looking to attach their own definitions to the world around them. A quench that never gets fulfilled to feel superior to everyone else in some shape of form. It derives from having something to prove to themselves, others, the world. Created from their own insecurities and doubts that makes them attack you and others. For the most part defining something or someone does not automatically make them the opposite of it.  Unwillingly they are only in a fight with their own mind, not anyone else.  We don’t walk around telling animals what they are supposed to be they just are. Imagine walking up to a dog and telling it’s supposed to “meow” because its what you observed all your life.  Whatever knowledge/opinions others have is their own perspective based on what they have learned it does not make it an absolute truth. If you ever encounter people with such mentality don’t take it personal they really do not know any better, they walk through life with blinders and that is all they know. REMEMBER: The only opinions that have the ability to affect you, are the ones you agree with. Bottom line there is no need to make someone else less, wrong or stupid to prove that you are the opposite unless….that is the only way you can attain feeling better about yourself.  Love + Light Jae Lux

    There are many people who walk around in the world with a NEED to be right…right about others, she is this, they are that, if you do this then that, if you wear this you’re that….always looking to attach their own definitions to the world around them. A quench that never gets fulfilled to feel superior to everyone else in some shape of form. It derives from having something to prove to themselves, others, the world. Created from their own insecurities and doubts that makes them attack you and others. For the most part defining something or someone does not automatically make them the opposite of it.  Unwillingly they are only in a fight with their own mind, not anyone else. 

    We don’t walk around telling animals what they are supposed to be they just are. Imagine walking up to a dog and telling it’s supposed to “meow” because its what you observed all your life. 

    Whatever knowledge/opinions others have is their own perspective based on what they have learned it does not make it an absolute truth.

    If you ever encounter people with such mentality don’t take it personal they really do not know any better, they walk through life with blinders and that is all they know.

    REMEMBER: The only opinions that have the ability to affect you, are the ones you agree with.

    Bottom line there is no need to make someone else less, wrong or stupid to prove that you are the opposite unless….that is the only way you can attain feeling better about yourself. 

    Love + Light

    Jae Lux

  10. I always try my best to live life this way…sharing my love, knowledge & light! Jae Lux picture source: http://shadowness.com/koyamenz/thousands-candles

    I always try my best to live life this way…sharing my love, knowledge & light!

    Jae Lux

    picture source: http://shadowness.com/koyamenz/thousands-candles

About me



I am an aspiring writer currently working on my first novel and founder of G.R.O.WW (more info soon). The proud Mother of 2 loving, innovative & very handsome little boys. Luckily married to the most understanding, supportive, loving man who loves me for ME entirely.
It wasn't always this way but the 3 c's have supported us along the way, the 3 c's are: Commitment, Compassion & Communication. We are complete opposites, that makes our relationship fun interesting and sometimes frustrating :/ lol
I am not a believer of many of the conventional ideologies, I question it all....I don't watch much T.V. I enjoy reading & thinking, i'm addicted to mental stimulation. My curiousity gave birth to my vivid imagination.
One thing i KNOW for sure is that I will never have all the answers, I will go in search of them but if at the end of each day a lesson is learned....that is a victory! This is a compilation of the lessons I have learned and continue to learn since my quater life crisis began. Follow Me on Pinterest

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